Jul 9, 2009

How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On

Have you broken up with your boyfriend, and are now wondering "how to get my ex back when he has moved on"? Don't give up hope, because your loss may only be temporary.


Here are some simple tips for learning how to get my ex back when he has moved on to someone else and seems like he wants nothing to do with me anymore.



1 - What should be done first to get your ex lover back is helping him to realize how much he still wants you. Things don’t come out of the blue they come out of the oblivious. There are things that you can do to help you from here.



2 - One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. Make a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without creating any drama. Show him that you can joke around with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again.



3 - You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn't completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt anyone - But it is important that you play it safe because if he doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.



4 - When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. You are going to want him to want you, but you're also going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot have you just yet. While playing games is not the best way to go, you do not want give an air of hard to get, making him more interested in the process.



5 - Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under estimate you. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on. If you act desperate, things won't work out the way you are intending them to, so avoid doing this at all costs.



6 - If you catch your ex looking at you or you feel him looking at you give him a glance out the corner of your eye. He will know that you are paying attention to him with a glance like that. It will be sort of mysterious leaving him wondering “Can I still have her?”



7 - Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These good memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad memories, because it will only hurt his bad side, which will not do you any good.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren't my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.





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